Eid al-Fitr! (Hari Raya A'idilfitri)

Why do we celebrate something in our life?

Does we do thing correct ?

Does this what Him wanted from us or does what we do can pleased Him as He wanted ?

DO WE DESERVE HIM IN OUR LIFE

Question! In our mind daily and we always feel that we never good enough for His blessed. In fact we should not worried much about all those doubt, as it will lead you either to be more faithful or faithless towards Him. Therefore, we had to be more flawless in our faith toward His love for us. Regardless, all effort we put in. 

                     E'id al-Fitr!

A celebration by all Muslim around the world after a month of fasting during a month of Ramadhan. On the specific month a muslim will not feed any single food or  a drop of water to them self before the light of early day spread horizontally across the horizons

till three minutes after sunsets. Beside, resist hunger all days by fasting during Ramadhan was a lesson for muslim to be more grateful for what we have in our life and a way for us to be more closest to Him. In addition, a fasting during a Ramadhan was a way for Him to show a mercy to us. Furthermore, He will grant more merit and forgive us for our wrongdoing if we did good and passed the challenges in a month. Hence, we shall not worried about His acceptance toward us or having a doubt if we good enough for Him. 

In therefore, the celebration of E'id al-Fitr is one of the big merit given by Him to us for celebrating in the fight against our darkest desire and lust for the greatness of the world in a month before. The celebration are on month of syawal, a month after a Ramadhan and this period of month a muslim will be more sensitive toward each others. The muslim will take a chance to ask for a forgiveness among each other and forgive to those who ask. As in Islam we are not forgiven till we ask for the forgiveness from those who we hurt. Here it shown that Islam are taking serious in Hablumminannas (relationships between a muslim to another muslim). During this period of month a muslim will do they best to get closest among each other and relative strongly in order to tighten up the bond as muslim in Islam. 

We need to be more rational when come to celebration and shall be more moderate rather than over spending in celebrating as we are reminded for always be thoughtful for those who are unlucky. At the same time, we are encourage to spend toward those who are unlucky and needed most, such as a poorer, orphan, widowed, single mother and etc. In return we will be granted more and more by Him, not just in the world yet for hereafter too. 

In our family, we do celebrate almost the same as what I been describing above except the relation among the closest relative. I have a big family, where its come with 13 sibling and my parents. We live in moderate live, love and a strong bond between each other, however we did not have a good bond with others relative from both parents side. Why? Not pretty sure, as I was not been though to give any assumption for what happen and the same time I was not given the courage for asking why. Hence, the relation was not fine till now. Regardless the effort that we making from our side to make the bond flawless again, its never fade. Only Him know the best and always give the best to us. Frankly speaking, there is no specific way in celebrating the E'id al-Fitr. As long as the celebration are full of joy and did not make us to forget for being thankful for what we have its should be good enough to Him!